tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2071975121558899968.post2992529064623604858..comments2024-03-20T13:00:24.272-07:00Comments on The Ferrie Girls: Full hands?Stephhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05002937604723118447noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2071975121558899968.post-79539600304352819062010-05-05T10:22:47.428-07:002010-05-05T10:22:47.428-07:00I get the hands full comment ALL THE TIME. I also ...I get the hands full comment ALL THE TIME. I also get, "Are they twins?" To which I wish I was brave enough to respond, "No, that one is 9 months older." YES they're twins! Can two siblings be exactly the same height and weight, with the exact same eyes, hair, dimples, and trouble-maker grins and not be twins? I roll my eyes internally and try to give a pleasant yes. At this point in the conversation there is some mention of who THEY know that has twins. "My aunt's, daughter's, sister-in-law has twins." What can I say here? "Oh, really? That's great." <br /> <br />The final question? Are they your only 2? Like, its OK to have two kids if you didn't do it on purpose. Sean and I want at least one more, maybe two...and you're right Steph. It's no one else's business!kathrynbradyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01571041741198556276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2071975121558899968.post-85903620459595177782010-05-03T22:34:03.843-07:002010-05-03T22:34:03.843-07:00Boy do I hear you Steph! My hands are full of love...Boy do I hear you Steph! My hands are full of love as well. And I only have two, but seeing that I'm pregnant, people definitely make coments. Some are nice, most others aren't so nice. I was at one of those stupid candle parties recently, so I only knew the host, and you wouldn't you know the coments were flying from other mom's who were "One and Done" as they called it. and "Boy you have your hands full, was probably said 50 million times that evening. And was probably the least offensive. "are you and Kevin against birth control?" and "I heard you were going to keep having children til you can't aford anymore" Were among some of the real jems, needless to say, I left early, because unlike them, I actually miss my kids when I go out. And they were all glad to get away from theirs, just goes to show you not everyone views children as a blessing Steph. I'm sure glad you do, and I wish we all lived closer. I called my mother afterwards fuming mad. I shouldn't have let it bother me, I didn't know them, and they obviously aren't the kind of women I would want to surround myself with anyways.Molly Betsy @ Star Cottagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13861998890203926196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2071975121558899968.post-72605158497689754802010-05-03T05:36:00.523-07:002010-05-03T05:36:00.523-07:00I get the hands full comment all the time, and the...I get the hands full comment all the time, and there is only two of them. And they are further apart then Lilah and Mairead. So people will just say it. Sometimes I wonder if poeple just want to make conversation and don't know what to say! Instead people should say..."oh what beautiful children you have, your house must be filled with laughter!" But that will never happen!Lora Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15890971251455937913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2071975121558899968.post-62932501441591283912010-05-02T20:07:21.615-07:002010-05-02T20:07:21.615-07:00This reminds me of a few weeks back at the grocery...This reminds me of a few weeks back at the grocery store: A woman was shopping with her three sets of twins, all fairly close together in age. And they were all being so well-behaved, but wouldn't you know it...there were people POINTING and STARING and making very rude comments under their breath. I was disgusted at the behavior of these grown "adults". I gave the worst ones some pretty disgusted looks as I walked past...they looked embarrassed that they'd been overheard, but certainly not sorry. Just because I wouldn't choose that for myself, doesn't mean I'm going to judge anyone else who wanted to have all those children. I betcha anything that her life was full of joyful craziness! They were all well-dressed and well-behaved. I can't even get my two kids to be well-dressed and well-behaved some days!C. M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17286985422481489928noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2071975121558899968.post-3572984764539406232010-05-02T19:57:49.630-07:002010-05-02T19:57:49.630-07:00YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I got to a point that I told ...YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I got to a point that I told David if I heard one more person say this I was going to punch them. Would you believe it was a little old lady who said it next....he looked at me waiting for my right hook! HA!<br />I hate the statement. Mostly because it implies that I am full...not able to carry more or handle what I have. I can. I do. <br />I like the "full of love" as a response. I think I am going to use that one Steph!The D'Amato Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17914473605897795090noreply@blogger.com